The real issue of homosexuality

Here is the whole issue as I see it.

Some people claim that Homosexuality is “not about the sex”. The thing is that is a lie.

Of course Homosexuality is about the sex that is why it has SEX in the name.
Look if you want to hang out with a friend of the same gender and you watch a movie and get dinner, maybe you go over to their house or they come to yours, and maybe they even spend the night. That is just a couple of friends hanging out. No Biggie there. Still not Homosexuality! I have done those things, as a kid and as an adult. So have (and do) thousands of other people all over the world Every day.
BUT
If you want to go to bed with the person; Yeah THAT is when it becomes about homosexuality. Otherwise it is just friends hanging out.

So when they say “well, I can’t help myself, it is the way I was born/made.” What they are really saying is “I cannot control my lust.”
Now if someone were to rape another person or have sex with a child or an animal or whatever other deviancy you can think of, doesn’t it hold true that if we are going to give people a pass on their lustful behavior because they cannot control themselves because “that is the way they are made”, then don’t we have to give the same pass to everyone else?

THINK ABOUT IT!

I mean you can be friends CLOSE friends and you can love each other and care for each other no matter what gender or anything else.
That is the definition of love.
To want to have sex with, is the definition of LUST. To say I cannot control my lust is to say that I am inferior than all those other people who ARE expected to control their lusts.

If a guy were to tell about his conquest of a girl he met within the hearing of someone who would be offended that is sexual harassment. But if a GAY man talks about his sex life that is being proud, and we cannot judge him or accuse him because, after all, “he can’t help it, that was how he was made/born”.

I would actually think that Gay people would be even more offended by this than I am since it really belittles them.